Pregnancy Questions

Husbands are also have low sex desire, when they see belly size changes, and so on (everyday life changes, bassinet, baby clothes and baby carriage purchase etc).

In any case, during pregnancy it is necessary to be ready that the quantity of contacts will be reduced a little, and also positions (poses) will be restricted.

There are 2 forbidden things for females during pregnancy:

1. Cunnilingus (oral genitals stimulation of females)
2. No any to do any sexual relations with someone else (possible infection of both, mother and baby)

If childbirth finished well, if there where no any ruptures, cuts or surgery – in this case you need to rest about 6-8 weeks. You have to be patient, because milk from nipples will go away during sexual stimulation, and naturally the womb is not lubricated well. Ask your professional obstetrician (or midwife) questions about contraception.

In spite of widespread opinion, the female gonad (ovary) recovers in parallel with breast feeding. Most probably you may have fecundation (impregnation) and as a result – unwanted pregnancy.

In summary we say – “you can do sexual activities during pregnancy and after childbirth, but very gently and gingerly”.

First quarter of pregnancy

At the first quarter usually sexual desire of females is low. Several factors have influence: smell and taste changes, vomiting, nausea and pregnant toxics. Also very common are: drowsy state, drooped and whining conditions. A nipple pain gives not very comfortable feelings for females. They can react very inadequate to any everyday situation and activity, and husband afraid of that. Couples reproach and wrong each other, and they think that there is no way back again. But it is not so bad as it looks like, because some time later everything became good.

Second quarter

At second quarter of pregnancy (4^th to 6^th month) usually the feelings of females is good. No fears and anxiety. Baby’s movement make the mother happy, she feels that everything is ok. The size of belly is very sexy, and it does not bother her. Father’s have also great influence, he prepare himself for the role of family head; this is the time of second honeymoon of couples.

Doctors also consider this period as very positive one, and they recommend having sex during second quarter of pregnancy. The fetus is finally fixed in the womb; he (she) is well protected.

Third quarter

During third quarter of pregnancy the couple’s sex desire again lower because of several reasons. First of all it is connected with physical uncomfortable condition of female (big belly that make it difficult). Second is that sexual activity at this period is painful for female. Frequent emotions changing are also one of the reasons. They afraid of birth process and this is of course affect on the sex desire. Husbands are considering more problems that they will have, and so on. Man always thinking about organizational problems: to buy all necessary for the baby (a carriage, a bed etc.), to choose together with wife maternity home in which their baby will be born, to arrange a short holiday, to help the wife in the first days after coming home. All these issues are reflected in sexual activity of the future daddy and mummy. Don’t forget about pregnancy sexual activities contradictions, which are:

1. Real threat to have miscarriage.
2. Womb bleeding or blood discharge.
3. Habitual non carrying of pregnancy
4. Fetal liquid leak.
5. Low position of placenta.
6. Multiple pregnancy.
7. Infections that will transfer via sexual actions.