All pregnant women and their husbands are always interesting in the question whether it is safe to have sex while she is pregnant. Is it possible to have sex or it is better to abstain. The problem has series of solutions. Some of them keep on having sex as before some of them totally refuse it. The best way is to consult with the specialist. No body rejects the fact, that during the pregnancy and after that sexual life (and other thing too) undergo some changes.
If there is no medical contraindications (as the pregnancy is endangered, miscarriage, non carrying of pregnancy, vagina bleeding, premature births, fetus surrounded flow of liquid, low position of the placenta, multi fetus pregnancy, presence of infection of sexual organ one of the parents) it is possible to have sex during the pregnancy. In some cases it is even necessary. Moreover, the recent scientific researches have proves fact.
Here are some positive facts about sex during the pregnancy:
- You don’t harm baby when you do sex. The Mother Nature has tried to keep baby under several protection layers: the forward abdominal wall with muscles, double fatty layer, a thick junction tissue; the womb that consist of fetus cover, fetus bubble with water (water smooth out all vibration around) and mucous membrane that tightly cork up womb neck.
- The pleasure hormones that mother receives during sexual action are also positive for baby.
- Long sex activity abstention for the pregnant woman promotes the negative emotions accumulation.
- You do not need to practice safe sex or use contraceptive medicine.
- Useful substances that exist in the sperm are necessary for the future mum: ferments and prostaglandin (male hormone) is good for womb neck. These substances promote womb neck softening, and as a result easy child birth.
- Sexual activity exercises the womb muscles and this means productive birth activity, good womb neck action, and clear labor pains.
- Orgasm also stimulates womb muscles, which is positive for mother. But we don’t recommend doing sexual action if it is almost birth time (a few weeks or days before) because, it can provoke early birth.
We will mention that mom’s sexual attraction either increasing or decreasing during pregnancy. This depends on the beginning of sexual activities of woman, hormones quantity at different time of pregnancy.
Sometimes sexual attraction desire with fetus development and both partners remember this period of life as the one of the best. The main idea is that woman did not feel any shameful things. Do not afraid and wait, take your time while the sexuality is ok.
Also we have other time of woman that decrease or totally loose the sex desire, because of calm (tranquility) hormone production and the body adjusts to maternity. If it is first childbirth, we recommend for husbands to be very attentive and take care of future mom’s, the sense fear (phobia) is common at this time. Husbands need to be patient to their wife’s; they need maximum attention and endearment. They say if the future baby is boy, the mother’s sexuality is high (because of male hormones), and in the opposite for girl baby.
Graphically the sexual desire of pregnant woman looks like curve: first 3 month low desire; another 3 month normal desire and the last 3 month again low desire. Why it is so? Because at first quarter of pregnancy usually females face with: vomiting, low mood condition (easy cry, not stable condition of soul, anxiety), fatigue and pregnant toxics.
Next quarter of pregnancy is better than first one. The phobias go away, mood condition is high, and everything is ok. Doctors recommend doing sexual activities at this period of pregnancy. The fetus is fixed and secure, and there is no any hormonal changes foresee.
And again at the last quarter of pregnancy we see low sexual desire. The fetus made the belly bigger, which is physically inconvenient, and might be painful. These emotional changes generate fear feeling before birth.
